Tips for a Happy Married Life

Marriage is essential in the life of man and animal and everything Allah has created inexistence created by the almighty of two couples. It is also known that married life is based on affection and compassion between the spouses, in order for a happy life between them must be understanding, as many scientific studies have shown that the differences between the spouses are the result of daily routine, as well as the preoccupation of children and their problems and neglect of the husband is one of the things that brings problems between couples so we will give some advice through which to reach a happy married life free of problems and to benefit from the experience of several consultants in the family and quote some of their articles to the benefit of this topic.

The most important tips for a happy married life:

Love and cooperation, altruism and sacrifice, habitation and affection of relationship, honorable spirituality, legitimate physical attachment, that is marriage.

Note that there is a trilogy of married life on which success and failure are based on it:

First: habitation.

Second: affection.

Third: mercy.

The greatness and completeness of the Qur’an, we find all these meanings as we have confined them, and what we have not limited is a verse from the Qur’an with six words, Almighty Allah says: “They are your raiment for you , as you are raiment for them” [Al-Baqrah: 187].”

First: habitation:

Al-Qartabi says in his book (Interpretation of the Qur’an): the origin of the dress in the clothes, and then the mixing of each of the spouses with the owner of a dress, to join the two bodies and to mix them and accompany them, like the dress.

Thus, it is clear that the relationship between spouses is a relationship of mixing and adhesion, the strongest social relationship, because it contains two aspects: an innate instinctive aspect, an emotional and emotional aspect, and if instinct and emotion meet, then the strongest psychological bond.

The husband’s being to wife and the woman’s attachment to her husband is instinctive, and the affection and mercy between them are emotional things that arise from the instinctive and other aspects.

Second: affection:

What is the happiest of the people of pure hearts who are able to forgive and forgive, and what made the couple happy when they each carry a heart pardon edifying like that heart, that many events occur in the course of married life, and while the couple stood at every incident he stood at every incident and reproached, angry, sad and pained as a place of forgiveness, forgiveness and forgetfulness, life will never continue, but will never be found, but will falter and be exposed to division and discord, Messenger of Allah said ” A believer must not hate (his wife) believing woman , if he dislikes one of her characteristics he will be pleased with another”.

Secrets of affection between the couple :

Here are ten easy and impressive recipes for the return of warmth and affection between the couple after their break:

First: Business participation.

Second: Verbal expression of affection.

Third: Declaration of confidence.

Fourth: Exchange of conversations.

Fifth: Appreciation and respect.

Sixth: To submit the duty before asking about the right.

Seventh: Contentment and conviction.

Eighth: Faith is the link.

Ninth: Pardoner and Forgiveness

Tenth: Special relationship.

Allah bless every good couple and bring them together in good.

Mercy is one of the most important ways to make sure that your partner cares about him, loves him, and gives him a sense of confidence that you will take care of him and sacrifice for him.

Compassion is also a symbol of protection, security, comfort and approbation, which are the essential components of a marital relationship.

The tendency and affection of most women is a fundamental link to her relationship with men, she marries a man who cares about her, she wants him to always express this interest, and without this feeling and this passion, the woman feels far from the man, and this passion makes the woman attached and connected to the man very emotionally.

Third: Mercy:

In summary, the need to feel the inclination of the other side as an expression of love is more than the needs of wives, but husbands also need it, although the expression is different. [The alphabet in marital happiness, Jassim Mohammed al-Mutawa, p. 43,].

Fourth: Love:

Some may say that married life does not last as long as there is no love between the couple, but Allah bless our religion and we proceeded quite the opposite. Love is not a condition in married life in the sense that it is not mentioned in the Book of God, but it recommended and mentioned affection and compassion, which is a higher and higher degree of love than the basics that must be provided between the spouses in order to be able to live happily, and a married life in which there is friendliness and understanding, and showing each other his love for him is important things that entail getting rid of the problems that may face them, and therefore neglecting feelings and compassion between them is the basics that result in the daily problems between the spouses.

Fifth: Treatment:

Here is the honesty in dealing between the spouses in terms of the actions that come from them, as well as the sincere love issued by each party, honesty is one of the main factors that result in a happy married life free of problems.

It is known that lying if the marriage life is interspersed brings him into doubt as well as betrayal and other problems that would destroy the married life.

Sixth: Accept the other with all its flaws and advantages:

It is known that married life is based on the sharing between the spouses in all things; each side must accept the other with all its defects and advantages.

It may be those defects in printing and dealing and other things that may be able to change it with the passage of days and you may not be able to do so you have to accept the other in order to live a happy married life away from problems and so on and yet do not prevent that each of them knows what defects and advantages they see In the other, he develops it or tries to get away from it and change it to suit his life partner.

The lack of intervention by strangers in marital problems:

One of the most common problems between the spouses is that the parents intervene in it, it increases both, instead of solving those problems more complexity, therefore it is advised to solve the marital problems between the spouses only, and not to inform those problems to others even if the parents so that it does not get worse.